Threesome cannot fix your relationship

Do you know threesome? Are you a swinger couple? What do you know about threesome? Have you ever had threesome with your significant other? For those couples who are married for many years, some of them would think threesome differently. Threesome may once be considered as something that could damage their relationship, would be reconsidered again after being married for decades. Usually, if you are married for over 5 years, your sexual life would be somewhat dull in different degrees, even if you tried role plays, BDSM and other sexual activities from time to time. Unpleasant fet life would lead to negative feelings and towards each other. You might feel that your relationship is lack of passion, or you might be wondering that your husband doesn’t want you anymore. At this time, many couple would want to try something new to spice things up, like having a threesome, or even an open relationship. However, if you don’t be careful with this, you might be entering a deep and dark hole which would end your relationship and marriage.

Threesome is not always the cure for a damaged relationship. I once had a great relationship and a marriage with my husband. Although, it was not perfect, but we were fine. The only imperfection is our sexual life. I think it is also inevitable if you are in a marriage for over ten years. My husband and I would only make love once a month during that time. Our relationship was also influenced by our unprosperous sexual life, so we decided to make a change. We thought about a lot before we decided to establish an open relationship, starting from having a threesome. After downloading a tinder for swingers app, we chose our candidate together. We settled on a girl who was cute and we are both attracted to her. We did have a wonderful threesome and that opened a whole new world for us.

After that, we would find someone on tinder couple dating apps occasionally to have a threesome hookup with. Such relationship lasted for nearly a year until we found it had changed our relationship totally. During these time, our frequency of having a threesome was once a week or once every two weeks. We would hardly make sexual arrangement between us anymore. We both noticed that too. So we made a new plan that we were going to perform monogamous sexual activity at least once a week without another person, just between us. Unfortunately, my husband couldn’t get hard on me. I was very depressed by it. He obviously had lost interest in me. The only way I can make love to him was to invite another girl in. From them on, I wouldn’t want to have threesome with him again and we didn’t make love neither. After about 6 months, we decided to divorce. That was the consequence brought by threesomes. I hope you all think it through before making a final decision.

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